Words.
Sometimes we may not intentionally think about the words we say aloud and the ones we mentally tell ourselves. The hurting words we wish never left our mouths and the encouragement we desperately desire.
Changing our conversations
In Chris Tiegreen’s book, Creative Prayer, he writes, “when we understand the power of our words, our conversations change.”
What struck me about this was that my words can influence what happens in life. My words can bring life or death. If only I had considered this before I spoke any words.
Two critical questions to ask ourselves here is “what do I want for my relationships?” and “where do I want my words to land?”
A word = a seed
Just as a seed kept in a box is useless, the same is for the words that we do not use or use for the wrong purpose. Tiny seeds can be easily unseen and lost within our care.
But also, a seed has potential beyond our comprehension. I am amazed at how seeds can grow into vegetables for us as food or a tree sheltering us or even blossom into gorgeous flowers. Likewise, imagine if every word we said made a positive impact on every relationship. And what if the conversations we have, changes the world for the better?
The three main conversations we have are with others, ourselves, and God. I want to explore how understanding the power of our words can change each of these conversations.
Build up and encourage
We talk to others in person, over a call, or through messaging. It’s easy to cast our perspective on them, to speak words of harm to elevate ourselves. Have you ever considered how your words will be received by them?
We need to make an intentional effort to say, “only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (Ephesians chapter 4, verse 29)
I know I can tell when my friends have my best interest at heart; their words bring life even if it opposes what we want to hear. Or simple words of affirmation encourage me to pursue new directions.
Hold onto truth
I think we talk to ourselves more than we realise – people term this self-talk. The question is whether we want to actively engage with this talk. I find myself realising I can alter my outlook and actions as I speak words of truth to ground myself.
For example, I have been preoccupied with what will happen in the future, I have been reminding myself constantly that God wants me to focus on the now and not worry about what will happen even tomorrow. He wants me to embrace this moment with him, myself, and others.
The truth is that God loves me and will give me what is good, so I do not need to spend this moment worrying about what the future will be like.
Unending messaging
We tend to think prayer is used when we are hoping for something from God. But it’s really an intimate conversation flowing from God’s love for us.
Prayer is telling God everything; because, in the sanctuary of his grace and presence, he cradles every hurt and guilt. Connect with God throughout the day from a place of honesty and humility. Tell God just like you would update a friend to update them on the job interview or discuss the problems you are facing.
Yes, flick an emoji to God.
From a continuous conversation with God, you will know him; then ask for the vision you have, truths for your life, and blessing over others.
Speak life today
Today I choose to lay everything bare before God. I long to understand him and myself more so every word I petition before God will come to fruition for his glory. I choose to speak life over myself and others. I intend to speak words of encouragement and truth.
Ultimately, I want to see everyone’s mind naturally aligned with God that every word considered or not will bring life. I desire this world to be a place built of powerful words, life-giving relationships, and communities thriving under God’s direction.
What about you?
Stephanie enjoys simple living, admiring nature’s beauty and intricacy, and playing the piano. She is particularly passionate about empowering the vulnerable. Writing is her way of processing thoughts and feelings to understand herself, God and the world in a deeper and more meaningful way.